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Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story. At work we often gather to share lunch or celebrate someone's birthday around a cake or other deserts. I used to be just a regular annoying vegan, so my collegues often get a little vegan treat for me on the side (which is very nice of them, for sure!). So either I eat it to make them happy (once I said no thanks, and my collegue seemed so disappointed, she said : "but I got it just for you!"... so I ate it), or tell them I am now keto (extra annoying) which begs some sort of explanation I don't really want to give. Or sometimes I bring a protein shake for lunch, and have to face a whole bunch of questions. I am the sort of person who hates having attention drawn to me, so these situations are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to start avoiding social gatherings at work, for fear of becoming isolated (I already struggle with a bit of social anxiety, so I don't want to make it worse). Has anybody had any similar experiences or have some strategies to share for handling this?

Thank-you for being there :) , just writing this down makes me feel better. I am so grateful for this community!
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sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story. At work we often gather to share lunch or celebrate someone's birthday around a cake or other deserts. I used to be just a regular annoying vegan, so my collegues often get a little vegan treat for me on the side (which is very nice of them, for sure!). So either I eat it to make them happy (once I said no thanks, and my collegue seemed so disappointed, she said : "but I got it just for you!"... so I ate it), or tell them I am now keto (extra annoying) which begs some sort of explanation I don't really want to give. Or sometimes I bring a protein shake for lunch, and have to face a whole bunch of questions. I am the sort of person who hates having attention drawn to me, so these situations are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to start avoiding social gatherings at work, for fear of becoming isolated (I already struggle with a bit of social anxiety, so I don't want to make it worse). Has anybody had any similar experiences or have some strategies to share for handling this?

Thank-you for being there :) , just writing this down makes me feel better. I am so grateful for this community!
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Hi Sophie!
I'm sorry no one has posted some suggestions for you yet. I think we've all been navigating Thanksgiving food choices that might also cause hurt feelings ("You don't like my whip cream?") while trying to minimize the lapses we make.

I'm copying our own Keto guru Tincup on this, since I can't claim to be keto-adapted. But as someone whose daughter regularly has to explain to work colleagues and waiters that her shellfish allergy is severe, it seems like being upfront works. Would an email like this before the next event work? "I want you all to know that I look forward to celebrating birthdays, babies, retirements, Super Bowl picks, and just having lunches together! My diet may be a bit unique, so I'm happy to bring my own food and enjoy being with such great coworkers." If you can offer to pick up dessert that the others will drool over, you might score some emotional bank account points. (I always admitted that anything I brought was guaranteed NOT to be baked by me.)

And a bit of social anxiety is just fine; it lets the extroverts in your group enjoy the spotlight! I find that asking people about their kids, dogs, cats, garden, last trip, next trip, recommendations for streaming shows is all most people need to be happy to see you as very socially engaged!

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Re: Being keto adapted and social situations on Keto

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NF52 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2024 9:44 am
sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story.
Hi Sophie,

I've been keto adapted for 15 years (originally adapted with a 20g/day carb diet), though I now eat a lot more carbs than most on a keto diet (upwards of 200 g/day on some days). See my post here on comments by ketone researcher Mark Mattson (used to run a lab at the NIA, now semi retired and still has a position at John Hopkins) Mark recently wrote an intermittent fasting book, first in this list.

In the Asprey podcast transcript, Mattson says,
"Mark Mattson: The ketone strips that you can buy commercially to measure ketone levels,
they're only sensitive down to around 300 micromolar, below that, you can't tell what
Dave Asprey: You can't tell, right.
Mark Mattson: It turns out there's two phases of ketone production that occur. As soon as the
glycogen source in the liver are depleted, you get an increase from way down,
below micromolar levels up to about two to 300 micromolar {0.3 mmol/L). They stay up in
that level for between 10 up to 24 hours, and then there's a second bigger
increase in ketones, where they go up into the millimolar levels.
Dave Asprey: That's over what timeframe was the second spike?
Mark Mattson: Beginning about 24 hours of complete fasting. My ketone levels, in the late
morning, I get up to around the two to 300 micromolar level. Then actually, I
haven't measured them after exercise, I should. I'm expecting to go up getting
closer to the one millimolar level or above during the exercise. I think a lot of
people will find that if they use the ketone strips, even after 12, even 16 hours
of fasting. They may look and say, "My ketones aren't up at all," but probably
they are up. It's just below the lower limited detection of those ketone strips.
Dave Asprey: If you use a finger stick, you can get the .1 level, right?
Mark Mattson: Not if you're using the ketone, the paper strips to measure.
Dave Asprey: No. I mean, there's the P strips and there's the finger stick strips, which strip are
you talking about?
Mark Mattson: Either strip. "

In my case, I almost always test 0.3-0.7 mmol/L beta hydroxybutyrate (BHB) on a fasted morning test. I look at BHB as an insulin proxy. The higher the BHB, the lower the insulin. Recently a PhD researcher, Isabella D. Cooper, in the UK posted on her FB page In this post, she says
Testing capillary BHB for more than 3 consecutive days, between 4-6 p.m., three hours after any meal, 15 to 30 min before a meal, will indicate whether your insulin levels are hyperinsulinaemic for yourself, although an individual suffering from chronic hyperinsulinaemia, who fasts for a few days beforehand will end up with nutrional levels of ketones (> 0.5 mmol/L) in that situation, which would result in a false negative for chronic hyperinsulinaemia but a true negative for acute hyperinsulinaemia according to this test method, as well as fasting insulin and HOMA-IR. She is the first author on this
paper
I did this test a couple of weeks ago and had serum BHB of 1.6 mmol/L at 4 PM.

In my case, if I water fast for some days, my glucose just drops till it gets to the low 50's (mg/dL) and BHB increases without any "keto flu." This is really my metric for keto adaptation.

As to testing, I generally use BHB fingersticks and a meter. There are breath meters and I got one in 2015. They measure acetone, which is more of a real time indicator of current ketone production. The inventor of the Ketonix meter is an engineer who got adult onset epilepsy. He found that acetone was a better predictor of ketones suppressing seizures, hence his development of the meter. My problem is the Ketonix sensor would also register on methane. As I eat a high fiber pescatarian diet, there is a lot of methane, so the sensor only gave me "good" readings if I was water fasting. Urine strips measure acetoacetate. As you only urinate what you don't use, these are fairly worthless after a few weeks of adaptation as they commonly won't show a reading, unless fasting.

You may wonder how I maintain adaptation on a fairly high carb (carbs coming from starches, like purple sweet potatoes) diet. It is likely due to my exercise routine as well has generally eating in an 8 hour or shorter window daily.

I don't have much to say about socializing. My own rule is that if I've not prepared my food from whole foods, I don't eat it. If people want to go to a restaurant, I fast and tip the server well. If we go to eat at someone's house, we bring our own food. At a family Thanksgiving a week ago, this is exactly what we did. My niece was hosting and her partner is a professional chef. He makes great food, but not on our list. I did bring a millet stuffing recipe I prepared to share (the chef requested it as well). When we host people, we normally cater food for them, that they will like, and fix our own food for us. When we travel, we always book accomodations with kitchen facilities.
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Re: Being keto adapted and social situations on Keto

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sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story. At work we often gather to share lunch or celebrate someone's birthday around a cake or other deserts. I used to be just a regular annoying vegan, so my collegues often get a little vegan treat for me on the side (which is very nice of them, for sure!). So either I eat it to make them happy (once I said no thanks, and my collegue seemed so disappointed, she said : "but I got it just for you!"... so I ate it), or tell them I am now keto (extra annoying) which begs some sort of explanation I don't really want to give. Or sometimes I bring a protein shake for lunch, and have to face a whole bunch of questions. I am the sort of person who hates having attention drawn to me, so these situations are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to start avoiding social gatherings at work, for fear of becoming isolated (I already struggle with a bit of social anxiety, so I don't want to make it worse). Has anybody had any similar experiences or have some strategies to share for handling this?

Thank-you for being there :) , just writing this down makes me feel better. I am so grateful for this community!
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Regarding social occasions eg work. It may be easier to say you’re super keen to stay on a ‘whole food no sugar diet’ as you feel so well on it

That way you don’t need further explanations, you’re also not passing judgement for others.

I’ve taken this approach with alcohol socially. When questioned I say how well I’ve felt having zero alcohol -more energy, sleeping better etc and say I don’t want to give up the benefits!

It seems to go down pretty well with minimal fuss
You can bring your own suitable snack or just say you’re not hungry but a cup of tea would be great

Office colleagues will get used to it so quickly and it wont even register after a while.

I agree it’s more difficult if you visit someone’s home for a meal or eat out and having suitable ‘snacks’ in my handbag eg nuts had bailed me out of a few situations when I cannot find anything suitable

I hope some of the above helps
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Re: Being keto adapted and social situations on Keto

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Tincup wrote: Thu Dec 05, 2024 8:52 am
NF52 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2024 9:44 am
sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story.
Hi Sophie,

I've been keto adapted for 15 years (originally adapted with a 20g/day carb diet), though I now eat a lot more carbs than most on a keto diet (upwards of 200 g/day on some days). See my post here on comments by ketone researcher Mark Mattson (used to run a lab at the NIA, now semi retired and still has a position at John Hopkins) Mark recently wrote an intermittent fasting book, first in this list.

In the Asprey podcast transcript, Mattson says,
"Mark Mattson: The ketone strips that you can buy commercially to measure ketone levels,
they're only sensitive down to around 300 micromolar, below that, you can't tell what
Dave Asprey: You can't tell, right.
Mark Mattson: It turns out there's two phases of ketone production that occur. As soon as the
glycogen source in the liver are depleted, you get an increase from way down,
below micromolar levels up to about two to 300 micromolar {0.3 mmol/L). They stay up in
that level for between 10 up to 24 hours, and then there's a second bigger
increase in ketones, where they go up into the millimolar levels.
Dave Asprey: That's over what timeframe was the second spike?
Mark Mattson: Beginning about 24 hours of complete fasting. My ketone levels, in the late
morning, I get up to around the two to 300 micromolar level. Then actually, I
haven't measured them after exercise, I should. I'm expecting to go up getting
closer to the one millimolar level or above during the exercise. I think a lot of
people will find that if they use the ketone strips, even after 12, even 16 hours
of fasting. They may look and say, "My ketones aren't up at all," but probably
they are up. It's just below the lower limited detection of those ketone strips.
Dave Asprey: If you use a finger stick, you can get the .1 level, right?
Mark Mattson: Not if you're using the ketone, the paper strips to measure.
Dave Asprey: No. I mean, there's the P strips and there's the finger stick strips, which strip are
you talking about?
Mark Mattson: Either strip. "

In my case, I almost always test 0.3-0.7 mmol/L beta hydroxybutyrate (BHB) on a fasted morning test. I look at BHB as an insulin proxy. The higher the BHB, the lower the insulin. Recently a PhD researcher, Isabella D. Cooper, in the UK posted on her FB page In this post, she says
Testing capillary BHB for more than 3 consecutive days, between 4-6 p.m., three hours after any meal, 15 to 30 min before a meal, will indicate whether your insulin levels are hyperinsulinaemic for yourself, although an individual suffering from chronic hyperinsulinaemia, who fasts for a few days beforehand will end up with nutrional levels of ketones (> 0.5 mmol/L) in that situation, which would result in a false negative for chronic hyperinsulinaemia but a true negative for acute hyperinsulinaemia according to this test method, as well as fasting insulin and HOMA-IR. She is the first author on this
paper
I did this test a couple of weeks ago and had serum BHB of 1.6 mmol/L at 4 PM.

In my case, if I water fast for some days, my glucose just drops till it gets to the low 50's (mg/dL) and BHB increases without any "keto flu." This is really my metric for keto adaptation.

As to testing, I generally use BHB fingersticks and a meter. There are breath meters and I got one in 2015. They measure acetone, which is more of a real time indicator of current ketone production. The inventor of the Ketonix meter is an engineer who got adult onset epilepsy. He found that acetone was a better predictor of ketones suppressing seizures, hence his development of the meter. My problem is the Ketonix sensor would also register on methane. As I eat a high fiber pescatarian diet, there is a lot of methane, so the sensor only gave me "good" readings if I was water fasting. Urine strips measure acetoacetate. As you only urinate what you don't use, these are fairly worthless after a few weeks of adaptation as they commonly won't show a reading, unless fasting.

You may wonder how I maintain adaptation on a fairly high carb (carbs coming from starches, like purple sweet potatoes) diet. It is likely due to my exercise routine as well has generally eating in an 8 hour or shorter window daily.

I don't have much to say about socializing. My own rule is that if I've not prepared my food from whole foods, I don't eat it. If people want to go to a restaurant, I fast and tip the server well. If we go to eat at someone's house, we bring our own food. At a family Thanksgiving a week ago, this is exactly what we did. My niece was hosting and her partner is a professional chef. He makes great food, but not on our list. I did bring a millet stuffing recipe I prepared to share (the chef requested it as well). When we host people, we normally cater food for them, that they will like, and fix our own food for us. When we travel, we always book accomodations with kitchen facilities.
Hi Tincup,
I am so glad to have found these new resources to look into, and especially Mark Mattson. I realize there is alot to learn about ketosis, and I have barely scratched the surface! As I now understand it, even the measures off my Keto-Mojo don't tell me that much.

That's amazing that exercise allows you to eat that many carbs!

I'm not sure I could maintain your level of discipline during the holiday season; I plan to cheat a little! I hope that being keto adapted will allow me to bounce back quickly :)
I like your idea of sharing a keto friendly dish with family, I will try that.

Thanks for the inspiration!
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Lizzy16 wrote: Thu Dec 05, 2024 11:37 pm
sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story. At work we often gather to share lunch or celebrate someone's birthday around a cake or other deserts. I used to be just a regular annoying vegan, so my collegues often get a little vegan treat for me on the side (which is very nice of them, for sure!). So either I eat it to make them happy (once I said no thanks, and my collegue seemed so disappointed, she said : "but I got it just for you!"... so I ate it), or tell them I am now keto (extra annoying) which begs some sort of explanation I don't really want to give. Or sometimes I bring a protein shake for lunch, and have to face a whole bunch of questions. I am the sort of person who hates having attention drawn to me, so these situations are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to start avoiding social gatherings at work, for fear of becoming isolated (I already struggle with a bit of social anxiety, so I don't want to make it worse). Has anybody had any similar experiences or have some strategies to share for handling this?

Thank-you for being there :) , just writing this down makes me feel better. I am so grateful for this community!
Sophie
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Regarding social occasions eg work. It may be easier to say you’re super keen to stay on a ‘whole food no sugar diet’ as you feel so well on it

That way you don’t need further explanations, you’re also not passing judgement for others.

I’ve taken this approach with alcohol socially. When questioned I say how well I’ve felt having zero alcohol -more energy, sleeping better etc and say I don’t want to give up the benefits!

It seems to go down pretty well with minimal fuss
You can bring your own suitable snack or just say you’re not hungry but a cup of tea would be great

Office colleagues will get used to it so quickly and it wont even register after a while.

I agree it’s more difficult if you visit someone’s home for a meal or eat out and having suitable ‘snacks’ in my handbag eg nuts had bailed me out of a few situations when I cannot find anything suitable

I hope some of the above helps
Hi Lizzy,
These are all great ideas, thank you for sharing them! Keep it simple, I like that.
I have started packing nuts and keto bars when I go out; so far that has helped.
Kind regards,
Sophie
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NF52 wrote: Wed Dec 04, 2024 9:44 am
sophielou wrote: Thu Nov 21, 2024 6:09 am Hello everyone,

I have been on a ketogenic diet (with occasional cheating) for over 6 months now, and am pretty sure I am fat adapted. Looking at lists of "signs you are fat adapted", I pretty much check all the boxes. However, I am confused about wether or not I am also keto adapted, because I have read conflicting information about this on other websites that say that you can be fat adapted without being keto adapted (in nutritional ketosis). Also, although I seem to be in ketosis during most of the day, when I measure my ketone levels a couple hours after dinner, I am often no longer in ketosis. I rarely go above 30g of carbs a day and am fairly active. I wonder if my evening meal is too "carb heavy", compared to the rest of the day? I have read the wiki section on Ketosis and Ketogenic Diet, which says that keto adapted and fat adapted are interchangeable terms, but am confused about how this can be true.

Now for keto diets and social situations. I can deal with my family and friends, but work is another story. At work we often gather to share lunch or celebrate someone's birthday around a cake or other deserts. I used to be just a regular annoying vegan, so my collegues often get a little vegan treat for me on the side (which is very nice of them, for sure!). So either I eat it to make them happy (once I said no thanks, and my collegue seemed so disappointed, she said : "but I got it just for you!"... so I ate it), or tell them I am now keto (extra annoying) which begs some sort of explanation I don't really want to give. Or sometimes I bring a protein shake for lunch, and have to face a whole bunch of questions. I am the sort of person who hates having attention drawn to me, so these situations are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to start avoiding social gatherings at work, for fear of becoming isolated (I already struggle with a bit of social anxiety, so I don't want to make it worse). Has anybody had any similar experiences or have some strategies to share for handling this?

Thank-you for being there :) , just writing this down makes me feel better. I am so grateful for this community!
Sophie
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Tincup wrote:
Hi Sophie!
I'm sorry no one has posted some suggestions for you yet. I think we've all been navigating Thanksgiving food choices that might also cause hurt feelings ("You don't like my whip cream?") while trying to minimize the lapses we make.

I'm copying our own Keto guru Tincup on this, since I can't claim to be keto-adapted. But as someone whose daughter regularly has to explain to work colleagues and waiters that her shellfish allergy is severe, it seems like being upfront works. Would an email like this before the next event work? "I want you all to know that I look forward to celebrating birthdays, babies, retirements, Super Bowl picks, and just having lunches together! My diet may be a bit unique, so I'm happy to bring my own food and enjoy being with such great coworkers." If you can offer to pick up dessert that the others will drool over, you might score some emotional bank account points. (I always admitted that anything I brought was guaranteed NOT to be baked by me.)

And a bit of social anxiety is just fine; it lets the extroverts in your group enjoy the spotlight! I find that asking people about their kids, dogs, cats, garden, last trip, next trip, recommendations for streaming shows is all most people need to be happy to see you as very socially engaged!

Nancy
Thank-you Nancy, Tincup has responded with lots of new information!

Ah yes, the holidays can be stressful for those of us on special diets. I am working on my plan to get through it, and the ideas shared here are very helpful. I like the positive spin you put on dealing with social situations at work. :D

Sophie
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